she moved out and everything in the flat is bought by her

i have to sit and look at it every day

Well...she didn't move out everything?

nope

ndc, by the way, did you expect this break-up at all before?  were there any signs?

......Well...is she planning to move the stuff away later?  

no alot

no she isnt

1)  If she is serious for this break up, then i suggest you to call her and move all stuffs away.  Because she may come back and grab her stuffs anytime...if you see her again...then you will never let go.  This is nothing relate to 風度....this is try to be fair to each other.  Your home isn't her storage room.  2) Ask her does she want the stuff or not, if she says no...then sell them all if possible.